Save The Boy Child

I tend to think that, ours was the last generation that raised real men. The state of Kwagamaya which is the hub that raises real men, has not disappointed. Simple lessons of leading from the front as a man cannot be taught solely by a woman. A male figure is vital in creating an atmosphere favourable for moulding a boy into a man. Unfortunately, a father figure is needed even in homes with male parents. All the concentration has been shifted to spoiling the girl  child in the name of loving our daughters. 

Education for a girl child was the most important thing while we were growing up and two decades down the line, a boy child has to raise himself. Slogans like ‘Educate a boy child and educate an individual or educate a girl child and educate a nation’ were heard everywhere. Almost given publication needed for a national agenda. It wasn’t that serious and parents still gave relevant attention to the boy child.  Boys grew up to become real men and took responsibility with a smile. The same applied to the girls who grew to become real women. Those women who were submissive and secluded their presence from drinking joints. Women who prayed for their families and religiously participated in church agendas. They understood their husbands pride and guarded his ego with their lives. This was a generation before the white man came to our homes with phrases like ‘what a man can do, a woman can do better’ and many other misleading catchphrases. Walking in a club in Nairobi today, it’s a confusing place to understand. Logic does not explain to understanding. Almost looks like a parents day but parent and child behaving like couples. 

Call me stone age but my idea of marriage (family) does not deviate from those given in the Good Book by the creator Himself. 

If I was a toddle in this era , I would opt live to die a virgin (Just discovered that virginity does not kill). But STDs will surely kill any soul whether deserving or not. As per the saying, “There is no Virgin in a maternity ward”. I guess its fate for the first timers same as the all timers. I do not agree with “Team Mafisi’s agenda and neither do I side with Team Sponsor”. In my world, we call the latter prostitution and the earlier fornication which ought to be against the law by all standards. I do not fancy the sight of a younger girl in company of an old, shameless, stone age, male prostitute who offers money for sex. Neither do I fancy the sight of a young, lazy man sleeping with his could have been mother or grandmothers classmate. Call them sponsors or Sugar mummies, it is an ugly affair and the concerned parties ought to be admitted into a mental institution. 

Nobody wants to marry a reformed prostitute who has been open to anyone with cash and wants a tumble. No one will keep such a woman for a wife. I will not introduce that kind of woman to my mother. 

As a matter of  fact, I will leave her at any opportunity I get and offer burnt sacrifice to my sleeping ancestors apologizing for ever getting involved with such a woman. 

Who taught women to smoke and drink like their father? If you fancy that kind of company, you should fancy a lifetime of solitude after your sponsor damps you for another younger damsel or even better he dies of old age. 

If you desire to one day settle in a good marriage, then you ought to understand that purity comes first. That of the body and mind. We all dream of steady, firm and warm breast. We want to fit into and not be told to go harder. No need of test driving if I know that am buying a new car. Might have some technicalities before it adopts to my mode of driving but that’s fine. I will not complain, I will gently take the challenge with a smile and I will own it. A woman who has kept herself pure and in prayer will surely not have a careless dude for a husband. She can be assured that the God of the Bible does not sleep. His judgment is just and his will is what is best for us. She who knows how to submit will surely know how to cook as cooking is a large part of submission.

I have no kind words for those that don’t have integrity. What is a broke young man doing in a night club? If not making money as a staff member, then he is scheduling himself for poverty. Alcohol should be sold to the elderly. Those that have inheritance to leave to their children and passed to the other generations. Who taught these girls how to tweak and fuck for pleasure. Who said learning to chock weasel (BJ) comes before house chores? These men will pay a harlot for these things to please the flesh and seek a good woman’s hand in marriage.

You can teach a dog not to eat raw meat and keep a brood of chicks or teach the chicken self-defense and lose them one by one. By bringing up a boy in the light of the Good Book, Teaching him to abide in the light is the only way. He will protect your daughters and govern them accordingly. Before formal education, girls ought to be introduced to informal education. Morality, purity , self control and self dignity is key in a woman. 

As sure as the sun rises from east and sets in the west, “You will never get Mangoes on a lemon tree.”

By Dr. Musoosi

Imbalanced Financial Scale

Most of you have heard of a motivational story where one starts from zero to gold. One of the common story told (for those who have not heard it) proceeds like this: There lived a young man who heard of a job vacancy as a cleaner in an office. He decided to go in and try his luck. This young man impressed the HR and was being offered a job. As part of the employment procedure, one needed to fill a form that required personal details. One of the requirements was an email address and this young man did not have one. The manager told him that he couldn’t be hired because he didn’t have an email address. In that particular world, if you didn’t have an email then you didn’t exist. This young man left the office so discouraged and thought his world crushed. Following from the story, this young man had a $10 bill in his pocket. This story proceeds to tell us how he managed to buy and sell tomatoes from the supermarket and made a lot of profit. He goes on and starts a supply company that successfully runs the supply industry making him the big thing. When making one of his deals, he is required of an email address but he doesn’t have it. Surprised, his business partner asks, “do you know where you would be if you had an email address?” He responds, “an office cleaner.” Fascinating isn’t it?

I have dedicated a better part of my life as an educator and thus sworn to tell the truth. I hate to break this to you but it’s all a lie. As much as I would love to see you motivated and striving to achieve, I will not let you be deceived. Knowledge is power and by this motto I live. The above story would be useful if it didn’t hold back the necessary information.

Looking at the above story closely, there are a number of things that we notice.

• This young man had $10, no data is availed to disclose the source of his capital. From the story, it is correct to assume that he was an orphan with no relatives and didn’t have any source of income but somehow, he did manage $10?
• He bought Tomatoes and doubled his profits each round h did. The story assumes ready market and high demand of tomatoes. It also shows ignorance of the prevailing market prices by the consumers and laziness to go purchase the tomatoes from the market.
• We also notice a lack of government in this story. There is pure profits and no controlled market. The consumer is left for exploitation by the market forces.
• It is correct to assume that he was a robot that didn’t need food, shelter, medication and other basic needs. There is scarce or no information on how one starts with $10 and manages to support his lively hood with the profits and still maintain an attractive level of savings.

As you can see, there is completely zero probability of this story being true. You can see many other reasons to doubt this story and will not take much time to explain them to you.

From my previous article (How I made my 1^st million $$$ ), I tried to explain why your money will not make you rich. You also notice that I did discourage saving especially in countries that use unstable currencies. If you choose to save, then I advise that you open a saving account in US Dollars, English Pounds or Euros. If you have been following the stock exchange market, you will notice that the blow you are likely to suffer using one of these currencies is minimal. Simple reason being that they run the world economy and are used as a major units in determining a counties GDP.

Strategy is a key aspect in any kind of invention or investment. You have to know your market and find gaps that need filling. My next article on the same line will introduce you to simple methodologies of how to sport opportunities.

Until then, I remain yours truly,

The Mighty Dr. Musoosi

The Darker Shade in a Woman

One man alleged that the way to a woman’s heart is through his wallet. He later learnt that his deductions were not wrong but mistaken. The wallet was simply a way into her legs. Further research on how to please a woman were conducted. It came to pass that the answer varied from one woman to another. The reason being that there was never a woman but women. Things that women find fascinating vary from one to another. There was not a specific way on how to please a woman. I found this deductions so incompetent and decided to offer my services in solving this puzzle. After working tirelessly, it appeared to me that there only existed two ways on how to please a woman. My observations are as below;

A woman knows love by the scent, sound, touch and in any other aspect of love there is. She smells it and feels its presence from afar. Her heart beats faster and forever when she sees it. This explains why women were the vast majority of Jesus followers. He was pure love and they were drown to him by it. When Jesus fed 5000men with fish and bread, the number could approximately be over 25,000 souls. Just a little lecture on why the good book mentions men; is because they were hard to convince and please. You could have one in a group of seven. In Paul’s letter to the Corinthians, the Good Book instructs man to love his wife and wife to submit to her husband. Nothing more or less. Love is what a woman seeks from man. Submission is what a woman is expected of, by her husband.

If you are trying to please a woman of the past Era, then you have your answer above. The modern woman is different and love doesn’t concern her. If you win $118m in a lottery, you may as well get the woman of your dreams in the next minute. She was right there waiting for you to win millions of dollars. Fascinating! Isn’t it? These two things come in handy. The likely question that you may be asking is, “what went wrong?” Parents failed doing their job which is parenting. In the old era, a girl was taught to adore marriage. That was her highest goal. To get married and keep her husband home was all she was taught to do. She learnt how to cook good food, submit and take good care of her husband and her family. Her husband was the first man to take her to bed after marriage and the aunties taught her how to excite him.

The modern woman is worried about economic crunch, fashion, sports, parties and most importantly financial stability. That is not the problem. The fact that there is only herself in the picture is the problem. No family, no friend, no community, just her. When she started thinking about herself, everything changed. She became curious and lost her values. She is looking for a man who is driving a heavy engine with enough money for her to burn. The tall, dark and handsome phrase was reconstructed by money. The Ugliest, old, short, plumb stinking guy with millions of dollars is surely tall, dark and handsome.

She sucks d**k for money and is not intimidated by reality. If you are looking to please such a woman, please go to hell. The fact is; you can only please a woman who has morals and is not money driven. A woman who desires family and is willing to sacrifice her desires for a better marriage is worth having. As I had stated earlier, there is only two ways on how to please a woman. That is good news. The bad news is that; no one knows these two ways.” Sorry to disappoint you. Honestly I don’t care if you thought that I had the answer. Read between the lines and you will have your retort.